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19 Words that Count
“I am giving you these comments because I have very high expectations, and I’m confident you can reach them.” Nineteen words that change everything. It’s not a reprimand. It’s not an attack. It’s not an ego-driven display of authority. It’s leadership. Yet too many managers still operate under the delusion that crushing someone is the same as coaching them. That critique delivered without context is “holding people accountable.” That fear is somehow a motivator. Here’s the tr

Robert de Loryn
Apr 30, 20252 min read


Beware the Candle Blower-Outers
Every organisation has them. You know who they are. The moment someone shines, speaks up, or dares to be different — they’re there . Ready to roll their eyes, undermine, question motives, or whisper a passive-aggressive comment under their breath. These are the candle blower outers — people who can't stand the light of others, so they try to snuff it out. A metaphor popularised by Brené Brown. They’re not always loud. In fact, they’re often subtle, calculated, and cloaked in

Robert de Loryn
Apr 30, 20252 min read


The Silent Culture Killer: Your Meetings
Too many organisations have allowed meetings to devolve into KPI tribunals — sessions where metrics are pored over, blame is handed out, and people leave more deflated than developed. It’s a flawed practice, and one that ultimately erodes culture, trust, and performance. Let’s be clear: when people consistently fail to meet targets, it’s rarely a people problem — it’s a leadership problem. Whether it’s poor delegation, unclear expectations, or a lack of development, underperf

Robert de Loryn
Apr 30, 20252 min read


When Mental Health and Misconduct Collide
Employee misconduct is always a delicate issue—but when it intersects with mental health, the stakes rise dramatically. Employers walk a fine line: protecting their people, upholding workplace standards, and managing risk, all while navigating legal and ethical obligations. Do it wrong, and the consequences can be cultural, legal, and reputational. Do it right, and you strengthen trust, resilience, and performance. We’re seeing it more than ever. A recent Australian Human Rig

Robert de Loryn
Apr 23, 20252 min read


Laughter Is Leadership’s Culture Barometer
In the age of employee engagement surveys, 360-degree reviews, and endless KPIs, we often overlook one of the simplest, most powerful indicators of workplace culture: laughter. Yes—laughter. That spontaneous, human expression of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. Walk through any office, warehouse, or Zoom meeting and listen carefully. Are people laughing? Are teams smiling, joking, enjoying their work together? If not, the culture might be more toxic than you thi

Robert de Loryn
Apr 23, 20252 min read


The Five Most Powerful Phrases in Leadership
“I was wrong.” “I’m sorry.” “I don’t know.” “What do you think?” “How can I help you perform at your best?” When a leader is willing to say any—or all—of these phrases, you can almost guarantee one thing: they’re trustworthy. And in leadership, trust isn’t a soft skill—it’s the foundation of performance, culture, and long-term success. A 2022 PwC Global Workforce Survey found that only 30% of employees strongly trust their leadership . That means 70% of the workforce may be q

Robert de Loryn
Apr 14, 20252 min read


From Robots to Real Thinkers
Here are 5 top tips to transform your people from robots to thinkers. 1. Set Clear Intent, Not Just Instructions Shift from telling people what to do to sharing why it matters . When people understand the broader intent, they’re more likely to take initiative, apply judgment, and find better ways of achieving outcomes. Tip: Start meetings by stating the strategic intent behind tasks or goals. 2. Stop Answering Every Question Leaders often create dependency by being the answe

Robert de Loryn
Apr 14, 20252 min read


Reprogram Minds, Reignite Independent Thinking
In far too many organisations, leaders have unknowingly created a workforce of human robots — individuals who are conditioned to wait for the next instruction before acting. Rather than empowered contributors, many employees have become reactive operators, disengaged from critical thinking, innovation, and initiative. This leadership-induced paralysis is costing businesses dearly in both productivity and innovation. When leaders micromanage, override decisions, or discourage

Robert de Loryn
Apr 14, 20252 min read


Toxic Leadership: Quietly Crippling Performance
Toxic leadership isn't just unpleasant—it's a major risk to people, performance, and profit. These leaders operate from control, fear, ego, or insecurity, often creating chaos under the surface while maintaining a polished veneer above it, and while they may appear to “get things done,” the damage they do to culture, engagement, and performance is both measurable and lasting. The data is damning. A landmark study of over 1.4 million Glassdoor reviews published by the MIT Sloa

Robert de Loryn
Apr 11, 20252 min read


No Surprises: The Leader’s Role in Performance Management
In high-performing organisations, performance management is not an annual ritual—it’s a leadership mindset. It is a continuous, deliberate practice of setting expectations, giving feedback, and ensuring accountability. And it begins at the top. Leaders set the tone for performance. They signal what matters, what excellence looks like, and how success is measured. When leaders are clear, consistent, and courageous in their conversations, performance flourishes. When they’re ab

Robert de Loryn
Apr 7, 20252 min read


Leadership Belief Builds or Breaks Teams
In one of the most poignant TED Talks of our time, educator Rita Pierson tells us, "Every child deserves a champion—an adult who will never give up on them, who understands the power of connection and insists they become the best they can possibly be." She goes on to say, "If you say it long enough, it becomes a part of you." Her insight doesn’t stop at the school gate—it holds profound implications for leaders across all sectors. As leaders, we set the tone not only for wha

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Apr 7, 20252 min read
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